Are You Making Money?
I receive a lot of emails from traders asking for advice. As a full-time trader and trading coach my time is limited, but I do what I can and I reply to all emails. Besides my limited time, one of the difficulties in responding to these emails is not knowing much about the specific situation and history of the person except for what they happen to include in their email.
Yesterday I received an email from a trader who is frustrated and asked for some specific advice. He says he follows another trader on twitter who is ‘very successful’ but is wondering why he isn’t making money. I get emails like this all the time, but this one was a bit different because he mentioned whom he specifically follows and also wrote that he has the exact same charts with similar levels to watch.
My email response:
“Here’s what I can tell you: 1) Every successful trader defines their success in different terms, and 2) Every successful trader has some “general” and some specific advice for others that sounds good but will probably have nothing to do with your own individual potential trading success.”
I hope he realizes what I meant in #2.
I also told him…
“Most people do not succeed at trading because they get in their own way and are unwilling to do the internal psychological work required to develop the right mind-set. Trading is unlike any other endeavor for a number of reasons, and I suspect you already have a sense what makes trading unique. Trading is simultaneously very simple and very complex. Trading is also largely about tolerating and becoming comfortable operating in an uncertain and ambiguous environment. Simple and complex (there’s that annoying ambiguity again!). In fact, most successful traders have gone beyond tolerating and have learned to embrace uncertainty and ambiguity. For that reason, I believe trading is mostly psychological. Once you have a basic understanding of market dynamics and have a trading methodology, your methodology will only work if you have the right mind-set. Developing the proper mind-set is most often the missing link once you understand the market basics.”
That was part of what I told him.
And as I tweeted later, many if not most successful traders at some point along their journey realize that being motivated by money is necessary but not sufficient on its own. Working on oneself is often the missing link. Or sometimes I like to say it this way, ‘learning what makes you tick will help you learn what makes the market tick and will make you a better trader’.
How does one do that, you ask? It’s different for different people. One person may get what they need from reading a book, or talking to another trader, other traders need more of an action plan to change their thinking and subsequent behavior. One size does not fit all in trading.
I agree. For me starting out was looking at a blank wall, wondering what the answer was. Then after time, I realized the more I stared at the wall, that there was actually a picture there and then after more time, the 3-D picture materialized and the mental state was there and I could see it and feel it now and be in the flow.
Only structured learning will provide the path to seeing the 3D picture finally pop out at you.
What do they say about something you love, the more you let it go, the more likely it’s going to come back to you, or in this case, pop out at you in 3D.
@LittleTrader
Excellent. It sounds like things are really coming together for you.
Andrew
I hope you don’t mind Andrew, that I am sharing my own “discoveries” here, but I like what you do and can’t resist trying to “help”:
the familiar place where we deal with uncertainties and feel comfortable — games. That is why I think Dalton mentions games so often. I am now busy trying to think about trading as playing against a few competitors.
As always, sorry for my second language
@Alex
I encourage dialogue here, so feel free to post your thoughts.
I agree about playing a game as a metaphor for trading. There are many applications using such a metaphor. Who are your competitors and how you define success are two that quickly come to mind.
One of the many reasons why I was attracted to Market Profile about 6 years ago was its use of auction theory to help understand the behavior of others.
Andrew